Commentary: Yes, the Filipino Is Special!


With the permission of our webmaster, I want to reproduce the entire article “Why Is The Filipino Special” authored by “Tikboy”, a pseudonym I presume, with my reactions/comments in RED and BOLDED interspersed within the body of the article.


Why is the Filipino Special?


Filipinos are brown. Their color is at the center of human racial strains. This point is not an attempt at racism, but just for many Filipinos to realize that our color should not be a source of or reason for an inferiority complex. While we pine for a fair complexion, white people are religiously tanning themselves, under the sun or artificial light, to approximate the Filipino complexion. Yeah right. At one time, we Filipinos were referred to as “Brown Americans”.


Filipinos are a touching people. We have lots of love and are not afraid to show it. We almost inevitably create human chains with our perennial akbay (putting an arm around another’s shoulder), hawak (hold), yakap (embrace), himas (caressing stroke), kalabit (touching with the tip of the finger), kalong (sitting on someone else’s lap), etc. We are always reaching out, always seeking interconnection.


Yeah right, Filipinos are always reaching out, seeking interconnection because they need to establish a fall back area in case they run short of money to spend on a lavish party, buy an expensive cellphone or simply to splurge on a drinking spree. They need to develop a network of “mga pwedeng ma-utangan” (people we can borrow money from) in case of some emergency whether real or contrived.


Filipinos are linguists. Put a Filipino in any city, any town around the world. Give him a few months or even weeks and he will speak the local language.


images (6)The statement that “Filipinos are linguists” is really an overstatement, an exaggeration. During our time in college, we had to complete 12 units of Spanish. I finished my degree not being able to speak or converse in Spanish because in the ‘70’s we had no use for the language except as an academic requirement. During my Middle-East years, I learned “spoken Arabic” because one needs to occasionally communicate with the locals who barely know English. While shopping along Santee St. in downtown Los Angeles some years ago, I was pleasantly surprised to hear the Korean shop owner conversing with his Mexican customer in fluent Spanish. People will learn a language if it is a necessity, whether cultural or business.


Filipinos are adept at learning and speaking languages. In fact, it is not uncommon for Filipinos to speak at least three: his own local dialect, Filipino, and English. Of course, a lot speak an added language, be it Chinese, Spanish or, if he works abroad, the language of his host country. In addition, Tagalog is not ‘sexist.’ While many ‘conscious’ and ‘enlightened’ people of today are just by now striving to be ‘politically correct’ with their language and, in the process, bend to absurd depths in coining ‘gender sensitive’ words, Tagalog has, since time immemorial, evolved gender-neutral words like asawa (husband or wife), anak (son or daughter), magulang (father or mother), kapatid (brother or sister), biyenan (father-in-law or mother-in-law) , manugang (son or daughter-in-law), bayani (hero or heroine), etc. Our languages and dialects are advanced and, indeed, sophisticated!

Yeah right, and wouldn’t it be great if these languages and dialects helped advance the thinking, attitude and common sense of Filipinos. Sadly, it did not.


Filipinos are groupists. We love human interaction and company. We always surround ourselves with people and we hover over them, too. According to Dr. Patricia Licuanan, a psychologist from Ateneo and Miriam College , an average Filipino would have and know at least 300 relatives.

Actually more, if you are a politician wanting to build a reservoir of voters. I know a politician in our home province who traced his relatives one generation removed. How do I know this ? I was one of those distantdistant-distant relatives he touched base with to get my vote. And I don’t even vote anymore, not for the last 30 years.At work, we live bayanihan (mutual help); at play, we want a kalaro (playmate) more than laruan (toy). At socials, our invitations are open and it is more common even for guests to invite and bring in other guests. Of course, some Filipinos are notorious for being freeloaders and practice the “invited by the invited” protocol. Where there’s free food, some Filipinos congregate like flies do when they smell shit.


In transit, we do not want to be separated from our group. So what do we do when there is no more space in a vehicle? Kalung-kalong! (Sitting on one another). No one would ever suggest splitting a group and wait for another vehicle with more space! Of course, why split the group when there’s no more vehicle coming along. This is more of a resource/logistical issue rather than wanting to keep the group intact.


Filipinos are weavers. One look at our baskets, mats, clothes, and other crafts will reveal the skill of the Filipino weaver and his inclination to weaving. This art is a metaphor of the Filipino trait. We are social weavers. We weave theirs into ours that we all become parts of one another. We place a lot of premium on pakikisama (getting along) and pakikipagkapwa (relating). Two of the worst labels, walang pakikipagkapwa (inability to relate), will be avoided by the Filipino at almost any cost. We love to blend and harmonize with people, we like to include them in our ‘tribe,’ our ‘family’- and we like to be included in other people’s families, too. Therefore we call our friend’s mother nanay or mommy; we call a friend’s sister ate (eldest sister), and so on. We even call strangers tia/tita (aunt) or tio/tito (uncle), tatang (grandfather), etc. So extensive is our social openness and interrelations that we have specific title for extended relations like hipag (sister-in-law’s spouse), balae (child-in-law’ s parents), inaanak (godchild), ninong/ninang (godparents) kinakapatid (godparent’s child), etc.

Yeah right. When an OCW goes on vacation his pasalubong (arrival gift) list for extended relations is three pages long and includes even his neighbor’s distant cousin.


In addition, we have the profound ‘ka’ institution, loosely translated as ‘equal to the same kind’ as in kasama (of the same company), kaisa (of the same cause), kapanalig (of the same belief), etc. In our social fiber, we treat other people as co-equals. Filipinos, because of their social ‘weaving’ traditions, make for excellent team workers.

I beg to disagree. In many local companies as well as in government, you will find the “crab mentality” very prevalent. So how does that make the Filipino excellent team workers ?


Filipinos are adventurers. We have a tradition of separation. Our myths and legends speak of heroes and heroines who almost always get separated from their families and loved ones and are taken by circumstances to far-away lands where they find wealth or power.

Agree, we have “heroes and heroines” but only in myths and legends as propounded by the author. Reality is a different thing.


Our Spanish colonial history is filled with separations caused by the reduccion (hamleting), and the forced migration to build towns, churches, fortresses or galleons. American occupation enlarged the space of Filipino wandering, including America , and there is documented evidence of Filipino presence in America as far back as 1587. Now, Filipinos compose the world’s largest population of overseas workers, populating and sometimes ‘threshing’ major capitals, minor towns and even remote villages around the world. Filipino adventurism has made us today’s citizens of the world, bringing the bagoong (salty shrimp paste), pansit (sautéed noodles), siopao (meat-filled dough), kare-kare (peanut-flavored dish), balut (unhatched duck egg), and adobo (meat vinaigrette), including the tabo (ladle) and tsinelas (slippers) all over the world.


Filipinos are excellent at adjustments and improvisation, managing to recreate their home, or to feel at home anywhere. Filipinos have pakiramdam (deep feeling/discernment ) . We know how to feel what others feel, sometimes even anticipate what they will feel.  Yes, but this statement is only true if the other person referred to is also a Filipino. Being manhid (dense) is one of the worst labels anyone could get and will therefore, avoid at all cost. We know when a guest is hungry though the insistence on being full is assured. We can tell if people are lovers even if they are miles apart.Of course you can tell who is banging who thru the informal gossip network that is part of every Filipino community. We know if a person is offended though he may purposely smile. If the offended party is a subordinate or an underling, the smile is mandatory otherwise, he gets into more trouble with the boss. We know because we feel. In our pakikipagkapwa (relating), we get not only to wear another man’s shoe but also his heart.


We have a superbly developed and honored gift of discernment, making us excellent leaders, counselors, and go-betweens.

download (1)Discernment my ass. In the 2010 Presidential Elections, these “discerning Filipinos” voted into power a lousy and stupid candidate whose only claim to fame is his famous family name, nothing else. After four years, the country’s situation is even worse than before.

NOTE ADDED BY FILOFAIL: Not to mention the discernment they displayed in voting a former president, ousted and convicted and imprisoned for plunder right back into a position of power (Mayor of Manila) to do it all over again. WHAT KIND OF DISCERNMENT IS THAT?? Dumbfucks!!


Filipinos are very spiritual. Damn too spiritual and borders on fanaticism in some cases. Witness the annual crucifixion in Pampanga.


We are transcendent. We transcend the physical world, see the unseen and hear the unheard. We have a deep sense of kaba (premonition) and kutob (hunch). These (premonition and hunch) are not a monopoly of Filipinos, all races have them. A Filipino wife will instinctively feel her husband or child is going astray, whether or not telltale signs present themselves. Not just Filipino wives. I guess this is an instinct common to all women.


Filipino spirituality makes him invoke divine presence or intervention at nearly every bend of his journey. Rightly or wrongly, Filipinos are almost always acknowledging, invoking or driving away spirits into and from their lives. Seemingly trivial or even incoherent events can take on spiritual significance and will be given such space or consideration.


The Filipino has a sophisticated, developed pakiramdam. The Filipino, though becoming more and more modern (hence, materialistic) is still very spiritual in essence. This inherent and deep spirituality makes the Filipino, once correctly Christianized, a major exponent of the faith. I wish the author would have defined what “correctly Christianized” means because quite honestly, I don’t know what he meant.


Filipinos are timeless. Despite the nearly half-a-millennium encroachment of the western clock into our lives, Filipinos-unless on very formal or official functions-still measure time not with hours and minutes but with feeling. This style is ingrained deep in our psyche. Our time is diffused, not framed. Our appointments are defined byconfused-man umaga (morning), tanghali ( noon ), hapon (afternoon), or gabi (evening). Our most exact time reference is probably katanghaliang- tapat (high noon), which still allows many minutes of leeway. That is how Filipino meetings and occasions are timed: there is really no definite time. A Filipino event has no clear-cut beginning nor ending. We have a fiesta , but there is visperas (eve), a day after the fiesta is still considered a good time to visit. The Filipino Christmas is not confined to December 25th; it somehow begins months before December and extends up to the first days of January. Yeah right, that’s why nothing gets done on time and on budget in this country. People have no sense of urgency, preferring to cram at the last minute and when things start getting awry, they are experts are finger pointing. Any foreign businessman planning to do business in PHL in December can’t get much done. Christmas fever starts as early as mid-November and lasts till early January. When people start going back to work after the New Year, they’d be having the holiday hangover and worrying about those huge credit card bills they incurred when they splurged in December. So they are too lazy too work effectively. Is it any wonder why we have remained Third World up to this time ?


Filipinos say good-bye to guests first at the head of the stairs, then down to the descanso (landing), to the entresuelo (mezanine), to the pintuan (doorway), to the trangkahan (gate), and if the departing persons are to take public transportation, up to the bus stop or bus station. In a way, other people’s tardiness and extended stays can really be annoying, but this peculiarity is the same charm of Filipinos who, being governed by timelessness, can show how to find more time to be nice, kind, and accommodating than his prompt and exact brothers elsewhere. Yeah right, another set of time wasting practices.


Filipinos are Spaceless. As in the concept of time, the Filipino concept of space is not numerical. We will not usually express expanse of space with miles or kilometers but with feelings in how we say malayo (far) or malapit (near). Alongside with numberlessness, Filipino space is also boundless. Indigenous culture did not divide land into private lots but kept it open for all to partake of its abundance. Is it any wonder then why the country has a very serious problem of squatting (informal settlers). The Filipino has avidly remained ‘spaceless’ in many ways. The interior of the bahay-kubo (hut) can easily become receiving room, sleeping room, kitchen, dining room, chapel, wake parlor, etc. depending on the time of the day or the needs of the moment. This is more of an issue on resources and proper planning but author explains the practice using culture as the take-off for his arguments. No wonder people here cannot move up to the next level. The same is true with the bahay na bato (stone house). Space just flows into the next space that the divisions between the sala, caida, comedor, or vilada may only be faintly suggested by overhead arches of filigree. In much the same way, Filipino concept of space can be so diffused that one ‘s party may creep into and actually expropriate the street! A family business like a sari-sari store or talyer may extend to the sidewalk and street. Provincial folks dry palayan (rice grain) on the highways! Pretty common practice. Encroaching. And if no one complains, you get away with it. Typical 3rdworld attitude.


Religious groups of various persuasions habitually and matter-of-factly commandeer streets for processions and parades. Yeah right, and it’s annoying when you have this funeral procession that’s about a kilometer long holding traffic on some busy thoroughfare with a bunch of uniformed people with hand held radios directing traffic. It is not uncommon to close a street to accommodate private functions, Filipinos eat. sleep, chat, socialize, quarrel, even urinate, or nearly everywhere or just anywhere! The author forgot to include “indulge in sex”. ‘Spacelessness, ‘ in the face of modern, especially urban life, can be unlawful and may really be counter-productive. On the other hand, Filipino spacelessness, when viewed from his context, is just another manifestation of his spiritually and communal values. Adapted well to today’s context, which may mean unstoppable urbanization, Filipino spacelessness may even be the answer and counter balance to humanity’s greed, selfishness and isolation. The author’s now making an absurd justification to the Filipino’s “Spacelessness” as a “counter balance to humanity’s greed….” I think his logic has flown out of the window at this point.


So what makes the Filipino special? Brown, spiritual, timeless, spaceless, linguists, groupists, weavers, adventurers; seldom do all these profound qualities find personification in a people. Filipinos should allow – and should be allowed to contribute their special traits to the world-wide community of men – ah. . .but first, they should know, like & love themselves.


This is another “makes you feel good to be Filipino” article. Skillfully written to sway the feelings of the reader (who may be a Filipino himself)   into accepting the Filipino (himself) for what he is. And this (accepting the Filipino for what he is) is where the issue gets muddled because what the Filipino is right now, is not good enough.


The author went to great lengths to explain why the Filipino is Special. So is the Filipino indeed special ? If the word “special” is applied in the context one would use to refer to a child with some form of disability, i.e. “special child” then yes, I totally agree, the Filipino is indeed special.



Published in Article Commentary, Delusional Filipino


  1. Profile gravatar of oldbreadstinks

    on spacelessness can you please stop their encoaching here and the bullshit that Filipinos can trace their lineage back to the Malay race and so should be considered natives in Singapore ?

  2. Profile gravatar of 30-30

    yes,,,, they are spaceless,
    always get a survey done on any property u buy,,,, becos,, beinbg ”spaceless ” they encroach onto your property and take up space with no charge
    those noisy f&^%t*&^ds ecroach on my space with their korokes and horrible singing ata all hours of the night
    the neighbor has a motorbike that invades my space at 5 am,,,,, he revs it up just like a harley,,,,,, i can set my watch to his starting that worthless peice of crap….
    as for charity runs, funerals,,, processions, beauty pangeants,,,,,,, parades those useless twats tie up traffic on their smoke ridden streets, maybe that is why dey are always late,, trafic,,,, sir
    dey never say goodbye until they moochthe last peso outta u,,,, especially funerals when every tambay from da provinc comes in and expects u to pay for food, trips to malls,,,, and their way home with extra money for the sick carabao..
    spiritual,,,,, lie, cheat,scam,, backstab,, noisy den sunday go to confession,,, 20 pesos ,, alll is frgiven,, monday back to the sos..
    NEVER tell a flip anything… i was in germany airport,,, one woman spoke in a langauage nobody knew, all she could say was meeting place,,, i took her to the meeting place and made sure her relatives found her. well, the flips that i was with could not ge t otta of the airport,,,, anyway,, one flip yapped all over the baranguay , i took a woman outta of the airport…asshole
    adventures?????? they are starving,,, broke… so they have to be TNTS,,,

  3. Profile gravatar of
    Steve Declerck

    Quote : “Filipinos have pakiramdam (deep feeling/discernment ) . We know how to feel what others feel, sometimes even anticipate what they will feel. Yes, but this statement is only true if the other person referred to is also a Filipino”.

    This is a nice one. I’m trying already several years to find an explanation for this. My wife “seems” so caring. When it’s a fellow Filipina who has a problem, she can spend hours on Facebook, e-mail, chat, meeting, etc… to help her Filipina friend. But when it comes to somebody who is not Filipina, she changes into a careless, ice cold person with no heart at all. I’m wondering why they don’t give a shit about people who are not Filipino, while overdoing their care when it’s a fellow Filipina ???

    Until now I din’t find a reasonable explanation to this. I hope somebody knows the reason ??

    Thanks a lot !!