I’m here today to share with you part of my experience in online dating and dating in past 8 years.
Well first of all I was shocked to my very core when a girl asked me for transportation money just to date me, but since it was 8 years ago and I wasn’t familiar with the begging culture that apparently it’s so normal here and they just call it culture (WTF) I just said to myself may be she had a problem on that moment so it’s OK and I’m going to shoulder it and by the way transportation is so cheap here but just after a month I got to know it’s so normal and it’s really part of the dating tradition here to pay for the transportation and almost everyone ask for it with no shame and later they try to overcharge you!!! But upon a time I learned since this people are so cheap by nature u should treat them so cheap as well for example if they are asking you for 250 pesos it’s better to argue with them over 50 pesos not because that 50 pesos make a big difference in your life, just because they are extremely cheap and if you don’t treat them cheap they only want to take advantage of you.
The second thing that I learned there is no such a thing as borrowing money or anything to Failipinos, once you give your money to someone it’s gone forever and if you ask them to give it back always there is a story and suddenly you are the bad guy, and it’s amazing how this people asking money shamelessly from anyone, doesn’t matter if they only know you for 2 minutes or less, as long as they can make a conversation they ask for money!
The third thing that I got to know was this people are very rude and ignorant in person, for example if you try to ask somebody out in person in a public place like a decent bar or in a mall it’s so possible that they just turn their face without any answer and even a word, kind of behavior that I haven’t seen before anywhere in the world, nothing even close to respectful decline, they just act like a hooker which someone offered them a very low price in a busy night!
So here enters online dating, 95% of the people that you see on online dating sites are hookers, scammers, thieves, liars and beggars. I will attach 3 of the pics out of hundreds that I collected.
Experience one, Dating daughter of the MR cop:
It was back in 2010 I think, I met this decent and beautiful girl apparently from a decent family that according to her, her father was a police guarding US embassy, we were dating and we hit it off and after a while we became gf and bf and I was supposed to meet her family and blah blah blah … but during the time that she was coming to my place and she was staying with me I noticed that some of my gadgets are going missing from my gadget cabinet specially the expensive ones, so since there was no one else coming to my place she was the only suspect. On her next visit I set my laptop webcam on gadgets cabinet and during the afternoon I had credit card delivery so I needed to leave the unit for 7-8 minutes and go to lobby to receive it, when I came back I noticed a very small mp3 player has gone missing and since I marked everything from the day before before I was 100% sure that she is the one who took it, so I checked the footage and I saw when I was down she went to the cabinet and taking something out but hiding it somewhere that I couldn’t see where since it was out of camera vision, my face suddenly changed since I was so disappointed and she noticed it immediately and intentionally she approached me and said “Honey my bag is so heavy, let me just pull some craps out of it”, and she emptied all her bag just to show me there is nothing inside, without me even asking her then I told her I have it all recorded and since she was shocked she said no I just went there to check some other thing and I didn’t took anything and she emptied her pocket as well and after 10 minutes she said she has to go because something happened, and long story short the next day she told me we are not good for each other anymore.
Conclusion: she was a professional thief!
Experience two, meeting miss volunteer nurse:
On 2014 I chatted with a girl that she said she has been a nurse in st Monica California and she just came back here and now she is working as a volunteer nurse in Makati med, at first I told myself wow finally I saw someone here doing something for free for the community and she is a decent one so probably I already hit the jackpot and I can meet someone decent to have coffee or dinner with and honestly I was so happy about it. So we set a date for the next day like 8 pm after her shift and I was really eager but as you all know things always happening here so in 5 am I received a text that her grandmother just died and she is leaving to Zamboanga by 6 am flight, that was the moment that I felt the scam and I told myself fuck! Another worthless roach! I checked all the flights and there was no flight from manila to Zamboanga as of 6 am. By 10 am she texted me “honey I’m at Zamboanga now but I lost my bag and ATM in the airport earlier in the morning and now the hospital demanding for 25k to release the body”
I said oh how sad honey so what can I do for you now? She said just send me the money by WU (western union) and I will pay it back to you as soon as I’m back to manila, I said OK honey but you don’t have any ID since you lost your bag how are you going to claim the money if I send you?! And she said OK just send it to my cousin and he will receive it! I said OK honey as soon as I’m out of office I will do that (LOL).she texted me around 2 pm and I sent her a made up control number and I told her go and claim in in WU so she went there and of course there was no money so she was calling me like crazy and I wasn’t answering her for 2 hours, after 2 hours I texted her what’s wrong honey you got the money? She said NO! I said send me the number to check it and after a while I texted her Oh honey I’m so sorry you need to change the last digit from 2 to 3 so she went back to WU and there was still no money so she started calling like crazy again and I wasn’t answering for another 3 hours, after 3 hours I asked her what happened? And she said there is no money!! I said what’s wrong with you? If you don’t claim it by tonight I will draw it back! So she said OK there is 24 hours WU here I go there and I call you so you talk to the teller. I said, great! She went to WU around I think 1 am and called me and said I’m here now what should I do? I told her “The game that you think you are playing, I wrote the rules bitch”
And you know what’s funny? She was texting me after 2 weeks and asked if I want to have sex for 1500 pesos!
Conclusion: Since they are so stupid, they think everyone is stupid also!
Experience three, Kick the shit out of bakla!
Since in this rat hole you can’t trust nothing and no one I always ask straight on dating site as my second question “are you a real woman?”, and I don’t give a damn if someone get offended by the question but later I explain them since I’m a foreigner here and lots of assholes here I rather to ask it straight first to avoid any problem later. So I was chatting with this girl and I asked her if she is a real woman and she said yes so we were texting and due to my schedule she was supposed to come over my place to meet after my work but I was suspicious to her and even when she was on the way I asked her “are you 100% sure you are a woman?” and she said “YES” and I said so we are cool. After like an hour somebody was knocking on my door and I was wondering why and how she could skip the ID check and confirmation with me on front desk, anyways I opened the door and at the moment that I saw her I knew it’s a motherfucking guy! I told him what’s wrong with you? I asked you twice and made it clear you can come here if and only if you are a woman, now get the fuck out of here. he was still insisting that he is a woman and I said ok then u should pass the test and I kicked him in the nuts (but not so hard) and told him I just count to 5 and after that I don’t want you to be here or else whatever happens would be your responsibility and I will call the police and tell them you were here on a rubbery since I didn’t confirm with the lobby! Then I counted to five and he was still there and telling me “Sir, can I at least give you a blowjob?!” (I know you may think I’m exaggerating but that’s exactly how it happened) so I just opened the door and started kicking his ass to the elevator in order for him to fuck off!
Conclusion: don’t trust anyone here, they all lie and even if you caught them in action they won’t admit it.
Well I can go on and on with more stories but I’m running out of time here on my break, I’ll share more stories later if you like, let me know in comments.