I’m often amazed how Filipina’s will shit in their own nest. Its like they are born to aim for LOSE-LOSE setups. “i lose, you lose”.
Take dating. If they have their heart set on wanting to be with a foreigner then they don’t have much choice in foreigners. Some areas like Mindanao have virtually no foreigners or such a low choice for dating if they want to buy a ticket out or to nirvana (aka win the lottery). You’d think that the Filipinas would go out of their way to look after the HAND THAT PAYS ie. the Foreigner. But No! they can’t help themselves but abuse kind people and rip, shit and burn as much, when they can, while they can with “pov” mentality of TAKE IT WHILE ITS THERE. It will soon go.
So what happens when they meet a foreigner? They want to aim for lose. They want to milk the guy for all they can with bullshit, lies, asking for money and LOADING problems onto the poor guy (I’ve even met foreign girls that have been screwed dry (no pun intended) by pinoys!).
Filipino’ism is about milking the situation dry. Taking as much as you can to a point of ABUSE. Going beyond that they justify lying just as easy as the words “wheres my gift” rolls off their tounge.
With all the games Filipinas play, this drives the foreigner off. Yes, to leave feeling burnt to a crisp and used for money and time.
Some are living in such deluded confidence that they will seemingly find another foreigner. They will go for any OLD, CRUSTY foreigner for the sake of money but tell themselves the mantra “age doesnt matter…looks don’t matter” but deep down they are saying “the smell of the wallet matters” “I’ll go out with anything for a better life as long as its not pinoy (a local guy)”.
Why? Why do Filipinos have to shit in their own nest then lose the foreigner and have to start again when they could take their time and ease into what could be a possible relationship?
Im tired of it. You meet someone and already as if bags are packed they are asking for a passport, mentioning going to “your country”, visas, marriage etc. aka “lets get the fuck out of the FAILappines”.
I have had, including my friends the bullshit – “you have been going out for 6 months now. In our culture thats a long time” yea fuck off – even some filipino actors ive seen dating for 5 years! OUR OUR our culture, OUR food, OUR DIALECT.
“my family are ashamed of me as i don’t have a house and lot in my name, cash etc” – ive had that, my friends have had that.
It becomes a family affair where cousins become involved to get on the gravy train. They have struck gold lotto.
Little do they know they are reducing the odds of the foreigner being around in the future but all they (the Filipina’s) focus on is MONEY, fame, power, showing off to family and friends.
When it comes to relationships and friendships MANY Filipinas set out on a self destructive path destined to fail (even through well meaning intention)… through their own cultural programming known as Filipino’ism.
EXAMPLE — This week I had two friends mention how just a simple date, the date would turn up with a greedy cousin. One of the friends said she ordered so much food including icecream for breakfast that they asked to take the excess food out and home and of course expected him to pay without even asking if its ok. In another case the friend said she ordered 3 more boxes of pizza and asked to take out then the Filipina told the guy there is a family crisis at home and he couldnt come. In both cases the Foreigners didnt pay for the meals! 🙂 only to be harassed by the family for payment.
EXAMPLE – The taxi fare borrow scam. I’ve had it, my friends have had it. This is where the date of course arrives pennyless in a taxi which should be under 90 pesos fare (so you don’t want to fuck around thinking about jeeps) only to find the meter is 4 or 5 times the fare. “whats going on”?! – my cousin borrow money (from the driver and the driver added to the meter) for medicine. “wheres your cousin” – she’s gone. Of course with the taxi fare, you have on your phone + hers that you said you would pay the fare (if the cops check) and the taxi driver has on his meter an unquestionable amount of xxxx pesos. Why? Why are they so fucking stupid to burn bridges Filipinas and take advantage of kind people.
EXAMPLE – friend wanted to see the girlfriends family. When he went to the house in the province over 35 people showed up, yes, all expecting food and drink. He then said how about we get mum and dad down to the city. What happened? the freeloaders hired a jeepney and 19 people showed up.
EXAMPLE – take this foreigner, a Belgian guy. The guy was as some would say stupid for sending cash but this is A TYPICAL EXAMPLE of th bullshit that comes on a regular basis from Filipinas. I need money for …. (job application, medicine etc). This guy obviously was a nice guy and was duped by this cow under false pretences. http://www.sunstar.com.ph/cebu/local-news/2015/11/28/woman-faces-charges-duping-belgian-guy-444146 Yet another example of how Filipinas lie. I cannot recall the amount of friends (including myself) that have been asked to pay a medical bill (in one case you could clearly see the bill was bogus and had a small block area of the date field been rephotocopied).
Rule 1 is don’t ever believe a filipina. They are highly defensive people even if you say in 10 years no filipino has paid me back money given – they will think through some miracle they are UNIQUE and special and different and not like the rest. That is one of the biggest dellusional issues facing Filipinos today that they are different from the rest.
Why? Why the fuck do Filipino’s want to shit in their own nests when it comes to a relationship and expect a guy to be around putting up with that way of acting dumping problems onto people. Havn’t they worked it out yet?
Sadly, Filipino’s wont be able to work anything out. They always think it was the other person’s problem and not take self responsibility.Published in