Thought I would share my story with you all. I have been going to the Philippines for 3 years now and have yet to find the elusive unicorn. Had a few relationships but every single one of them ended because the girl I was seeing basically could not stay loyal to me and ended up screwing around on me. This probably doesn’t come as a surprise to most of you here as the fairy tale that dating sites tell you about a land of beautiful faithful virgins awaiting their prince charming couldn’t be further from the truth. It’s a land of opportunistic sluts who even after securing themselves an elusive foreigner, who will offer them a better life, they will still play the field in hopes of more sponsorship.
This brings me to my story. It is the story of my latest girlfriend or should I say ex girlfriend. After a few hits and misses I decided to meet with a girl who I had known through chatting as a friend on facebook for around a year. She had been very supportive through a breakup I had a few months earlier and I had also helped her through a breakup she had a few more prior to that.
Anyway, July 2014 I met her and there was chemistry right away. She looked fantastic and had a personality and sense of humour that matched mine. I had planned just to meet her for a day or two but things developed fast and I spent the full 2 weeks over there with her. She was awesome in every way possible.
In Sep 2014 I decided to fly over for a week and surprise her for her birthday. I got to meet her family, dropped around 20k peso for her birthday celebrations (lechon baboy, booze etc) and things went great again. She was a keeper I was thinking. I organised a passport and tourist visa for her to come visit me in Australia which was granted in November.
Late November I flew over to pick her up and we came back to Australia together. The tourist visa was a 3 month one. Things were going great together and she integrated well into Australia. January rolled around and decided to extend the visa for another 6 months out to August 2015. Within a week of doing that I started noticing some changes in attitude and she had become highly protective of her phone and her Facebook.
To explain the attitude change best to throw in a little history. We had met a couple in early December. She had a relative in law who was an ex bar girl and had married a guy here, and been here for 7 years. That meeting this trashy relative offered to find her a younger man. My girlfriend was shocked and disgusted by this and told me when we got home that night. Roll forward late January. This trashy relative was having her 30th and we would meet again. We also did the obligatory invite back. The third meeting was just after the visa extension.
February I copped more and more attitude, and one night something she said got me suspicious. She told me she wanted some money to put on her train pass as her pass had run out of money. I asked her how this happened and she said she had been practising using it around the city. Now transport is free within the city so alarm bells started ringing. I had her pass registered so I thought I would check her transport movements. When I checked it, BAM, there is was. She had been spending the last two weeks catching a train to meet the relative and then carrying on to somewhere else (most likely the relative’s younger boyfriends place).
I didn’t have any solid proof of her cheating but enough circumstantial evidence to come up with a probable scenario so I confronted her about her cheating and she confessed to everything. Told her she had two choice, me or them, and she begged my forgiveness. I decided to give her a chance to prove herself but as she didn’t know how I tracked her in the first place, she went off an cheated on me again within a week so I kicked her out my place.
After that I basically got daily messages from her for three weeks saying she missed me. I found out about her new boyfriend. A younger guy he was, but unemployed, living in a crime ridden suburb. He is basically an Australian version of a trike driver. When I mentioned she downgraded this idiot cracked it and sent all sorts of threats saying him and his friends were coming to my work and to my home to discuss things with me face to face.
Roll forward a month and now I find out she is 2 months pregnant. She went from living with a loyal guy on a six figure income in a great suburb to this unemployed idiot, in a crime ridden suburb, with no ticket home. Her family now has no support. I gave them 50k peso to fix their place after it was trashed in December by the typhoon amongst other things but the new guy can’t even afford to buy a 5kg bag of rice for them.
By all accounts he plans to marry her and thinks this will qualify her to stay in the country. However the cost of a spouse visa and pregnancy in Australia along with the strict requirements to get a spouse visa will see this stupid girl back in the province in a year or two with her baby and her idiot boyfriend with a heap of accumulated debt and little to no chance of being with her.
I think I have dodged a bullet on this one and she definitely qualifies as a failipina. She had it all but by choosing to let a slut turn her into a slut she has nothing now. Her relative cheating on her husband had the beans spilt on her by yours truly and is facing an impending divorce in her near future as well.Published in