Thought I’d add a quick little story before I go to work. As many of you can probably relate, I, yet again, have to be subjected to my wife’s manipulation, Filogic and down right bitchy attitude. This is an endless cycle I tell you. All it takes is one little thing and this Filipino fucktard puts me through hell once again. If she can’t get her way it’s the same tactics:
- Fight: Needlessly fight with me, throw things around the house and try to be heard
- Threaten: Go to the extreme if she doesn’t get her way and threaten the relationship
- Manipulate: Proceed to Tampo giving me silent treatment
- Deny: Refrain from any blame by trying to switch the tables on me.
This is the pattern I go through over the smallest little shit. I swear this bitch is fucking mentally unsound and considering she is a Filipino, it goes beyond that. Stupidity, childishness, temper tantrums, all the symptoms small selfish children get. But what do you expect from a Pinoy brain?
Just the other day, we get in a fight over money which is always the number one tampo creator. We made a deal, she gets 100$ to spend on whatever and I get to keep her bank card. Simple, she can spend it on whatever she wants while I handle the money. She’s dumb with money after all, and having $100 for spending is within our budget each month so it is fair. I also only get $100 to spend so things are equal. But as you all can imagine, they never stick to a promise. Instead they will fight tooth and nail to weasel out of it and that’s what she’s been trying to do now. Anyhow, I’ve been holding my ground and not allowing this and now I get the bullshit that’s tied with that. Tampo, silent treatment, threatening the relationship etc. Taking money away from a Pinoy is like taking their SOUL away!
OK, on to my main point here. So, as most of you know, trying to reason with a Pinoy when they are sulky and upset is as good as reasoning with a tennis ball. You can bounce it around all you want but it’s not going to answer back and reason with you. Just the other day I notice my little boy is not closing the toilet lid, flushing, and then washing his hands. “why the heck are you not doing this? Ive taught you better?” Well what would be the source of all problems in the house hold if there is someone of Pinoy blood? You guessed it, my wife decided she would not bother with that task anymore. So now, when I come home from work, I get to retrain my son because of her laziness. So I ask her “have you been getting him to flush and wash his hands? What is going on here?” She of coarse denies, lies by saying “ya, ya” but through time of me pestering her, finally caves in. “it’s a waste of water flushing all the time and he’s getting his hands dirty anyway”.
What a poor pathetic excuse, but what do you expect from a Pinoy? That’s their specialty after all. Now I try to reason with her and tell her “well you’re making work for me and yourself by doing so, he should get into the routine of flushing and washing his hands”
One thing I’ve learned with child brained Filipino adults, is you never correct them or lecture them. They will do whatever they can to make your life a misery if you do so, and that is what my wife decided to do. I told her “please don’t make work for me, you know he should be cleaning his hands” SO what comes after that? “I’ll just do all the work then and you can do whatever you want” So she plays the victim role (your requests are hurting me), denies she did anything wrong, and then does the all so predictable switch one me (“I’ll do all the work”) then proceeds to threaten the relationship after this. Seriously, you catch them cheating or doing something wrong and they will go to extremes to make you pay for it! Never correct a Pinoy on their wrong doings because they are never wrong in their eyes! They are God’s perfect creation!
On top of this she wants that bank card back all the time. You know how it is with pinoy’s. Money, materials and showing off is their specialty and of the utmost importance. Now if you were a sane person, would you threaten a relationship, use tampo treatment, deny, disrespect and continue this trend over these 2 little things? You try to sit down and have a reasonable conversation and it’s just like talking to a brick wall. “Lets sit down and reason like adults. Lets try to work out a compromise?” but it goes nowhere.
Anyhow, I gotta go to work, but I thought I’d share my frustrations of living with this psycho manipulating, denying Pinoy. This is what I get to endure all the time. Sometimes my 3 year old child is easier to deal with.