I came across your blog, because I was desperately searching for a way to get away from my Filipina wife. The problem is we have a young child, and I’m stuck here for several months before I can move back to the U.S.. I applied for my wife’s visa a year ago, but since then I’ve encountered what all of you have obviously been living with, absolute mind boggling ignorance. There is no way I can let my child live in this country, but I’m a little hesitant to tell my wife I want to go back to America with my child and leave her here, because I think she will pass our kid around to her hundreds of family members and I’ll never see my kid again. Not only that, I’m a little concerned that her family might take revenge against me and try to hurt me. We will be getting our kids U.S. passport soon and I’m considering my options. I probably wouldn’t stand a chance in hell in getting custody of my child here in PH. The only way for me to feel comfortable is to get my kid on U.S. soil first and then deal with a divorce later.
I hope I can get some comments on my situation.Published in