Ok here I go again with the latest tale of stupidity
I asked my G/F to marry me a couple years ago and seeing how I already knew her Mama was a blood sucking leach I decided on buying my G/F a cheap ass ring because I knew only 1 of a couple things would happen .
She would pawn it at Mamas advice or lose it or it would be ripped off.
Well it was misplaced while she was doing dishes ? No one seen it or knew anything about it
Fast forward appox a year and It shows up on Mamas hand !!! And she has the nerve to wear it on her ring finger and show it to my G/F who asked for it back because it was her engagement ring after all .
Her mama said NO i,m borrowing it ???? As soon as I found out I went to the market (where she works) And asked why she was wearing her engagement ring ? Oh I found it well Papa found it .
I told her give it to me NOW !!! which she did but it caused much chika among the other sellers and I had embarrassed her in front of her peers .
Now the whole family has said why would there daughter tell me and why wouldn’t, she just come on her own to ask for the ring back ? They tell her all the time that family problems are not to be shared with me even if I am directly involved because they don,t want to be seen in a bad light .
What kind of a person would take a engagement ring from there own daughter ?
They say when forced to give it back its a cheap piece of shit and I should have just thrown it away. I,m glad this happened because now my G/F has seen the true evil that infects her Mama and Papa and has washed her hands of helping anymore .
I have been waiting for her to see this for herself because me forcing her to abandon her family would come back to bite me in the ass but she has made the choice now .
Now I know the family has her on ignore no calls visits or contact because in the past that has worked to get her to crack and give some money They are very nice as long as shes paying the bills and giving Mama all her money .
This last trip so much stuff has happened IE: Back biting , Lying ,Scamming, with many deeds exposed from the past . I have decided to stop all support and contact with the parents .
Pure idiots if they just treated my g/f with respect and maybe a little towards me I would have gave them more than they would have ever asked . But they have made it clear I am not part of the family and I am to be used for cash inflows only .
On the bright side this will save me a ton of cash and headaches.Published in